Problems Foster Kids Face

This article brings to light just one of the many problems that foster kids face. It also shows how foster kids can thrive a citizens and advocates when being empowered by a loving family. It's time to stand up for foster kids rights!

MinnPost - D.C. Dispatches: Minnesota girl tells senators of school problems foster kids face

Foster Care - The Toughest Job You'll Ever Love (short)

National Foster Care Month

On Mother's Day, May 9th, consider this: 123,000 kids are waiting in U.S. foster care for a permanent and loving family to call their own.

Consider becoming a mom or a mom again this mother's day. Give an awesome kid the gift of a mom!

Worth Re-tweeting

This morning, I was reading my twitter page and came across this tweet: "Remembering when I first was engaged to Walker. He introduced me to one of his friends, who said,'Nice to finally meet you. We've prayed for you for years.' All teary again at the memory!!" from @Missyneedsanap

I too became a little teary just reading that. (Becoming a mom has brought the weepiness out of me. However, I am still not a crier!) What an awesome greeting and blessing. That is the way to start a marriage. I find myself praying for Reese's future friends and bride, though not nearly enough. It is never too early to bring blessings on your child and those that will be such a big influence in their lives.

My little fella isn't even 2 yet, but I know God has an incredible group of people out there for him if he will be faithful to follow Christ's leading. One thing I have to remember... it must be Christ's leading. I can't make his decisions for him. I must let him make his choices and learn from those choices. I can, however, model good choices for him and continue to ask God's blessings on his sweet little life.

It is hard to imagine him walking out my front door with a group of teenagers and even harder to imagine him walking out that door with a ring in his hand. There is no doubt in my mind that God is preparing him for that and preparing those other kids as well. What an incredible blessing we can give that young lady someday if we, as parents, will be faithful to pray for her.

The Body Shop to the Rescue!

I have EXTREMELY sensitive, dry skin. For a couple of years I had been using The Body Shop's skin care products. A couple of months ago I was running low and decided that I would take the opportunity to try something new. I bought the Rare Minerals cleaner thinking that I wanted to also try the Bare Minerals line of makeup. I had been trying the ULTA minerals with no luck.

My skin did not take well to the Rare Minerals, so I went into ULTA and had one of the ladies test Studio Gear on me. Within a couple of hours my face had totally broken out and was VERY red. I tried some of Reese's baby cream on my face to help with the dryness. Bad idea!!! It immediately burned and made my face even redder. For a couple of days my entire face was very red (like I had burned myself) and covered in bumps. On top of that the skin was flaking due to the dryness.

I bought a couple of cheap things at Wal-Mart and they too reeked havoc on my skin. Rather than keep torturing my skin and being in pain, I headed to the mall. The Body Shop to the rescue! As soon as I got home, I opened up my gift set of Aloe Calming products and went through the steps. I kid you not, within minutes my skin was soft, the redness was gone, and the flakes were gone! My husband even noticed the difference.

What was I thinking? Why did I ever stray? This stuff is like a miracle in a bottle for my skin.

Not only do I like the fact that this stuff works, I love that it is cruelty free, and they use Fair Trade ingredients. The Body Shop is a must for men and women's beauty aids. I don't typically wear makeup (I don't like it and it generally irritates my skin), but I even bought some of their makeup and love the way it feels and looks also with no irritation.

Try The Body Shop, I promise you won't be disappointed!

Report: Foster Kids Face Tough Times After Age 18 : NPR

Please consider being a foster parent! Don't just give them a place to sleep, be a family for them and teach them as if they are your own. This does not have to happen!

Report: Foster Kids Face Tough Times After Age 18 : NPR

Thanks for the junk!

In The Purpose Driven Life, Rick Warren says that God never wastes a hurt. As ironic as it sounds I become more and more thankful for this everyday.

Growing up I had a fairly rough home life. I had to grow up really quickly and be my own parent most of the time. Unfortunately, some of the adults in my life didn't know how to be adults and made many bad decisions of which I often felt the consequences.

On the outside it looked like I had it all together. I was a happy kid and teenager, never rebellious or out of control. My extended family made sure that I had nice clothes, a car, a job, and a house to sleep in. They also made every effort to let me participate in the activities that my friends did (church camp, dance classes and competitions, sports). Most people never knew how poor we really were and what exactly went on at home. For the most part, I blended in at my affluent high school.

Last night Bryan called me just before I got home and asked how far away I was. About a mile from home, I pulled in the driveway just minutes before one of our students. The student had called Bryan earlier upset and needing to talk to someone. Not wanting to leave any room for question or speculation, he wanted to make sure that I was there too.

Wow, I blown away to hear the student's story. I had no idea what was going on in this kids life. Bryan was aware of the situation and had been talking with the student for a while about things. This kid is a strong leader in our group, well put together, good at school, sold out to Christ, and loves to serve. A popular kid, you would never guess what was going on behind that smile and sweet disposition.

My heart broke and I began to cry (I am not a crier). I couldn't help but think of my own teenage years. So many of the things going on were similar to situations I had dealt with in my own life and family as a high school and college student. Anyone would feel sorry for this kid, but I could completely understand what was going on inside. I had been there. Though it was probably 15 years ago when I dealt with those issues, it felt like it was happening all over again.

We didn't have a lot of answers, but we prayed and I let the student in on some of what I had been through. If nothing else, the student left knowing that they had found someone who would listen, understand, and help however possible.

God reminded me of that chapter from The Purpose Driven Life and that all those hurts in my life weren't a waste. You can't truly understand someone until you've been there. He also reminded me of what a huge responsibility we have as parents. Every decision we make not only affects us, but our children also. Exodus 34:6-7 makes it clear that our families will have to pay for our choices.

Thank you God that you don't waste those experiences. I couldn't be who I am today without those moments and I wouldn't have the opportunity to love teenagers with those hurts. It seems odd to be thankful for the junk in your life, but I wouldn't change one thing. Thanks for the junk!